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How to Interview “Almost” Anyone – TEDx Talk by Mike Dronkers
Year of production: 2020
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ah so it interviewing is is an art but I
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don't treat it that way so let's put it
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like this like this is basically a talk
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about not talking I work at a very
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eclectic community radio station and
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we're really lucky we talk to all kinds
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of people yeah there's bands that come
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through that's great I can hang with
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that but authors read [ __ ] book
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we've got authors coming through we've
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got you know poets and drug addicts and
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nonprofits of every stripe and
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scientists like people with job titles
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like fluvial geomorphologist right I
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don't know either but the thing is I
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have to have this conversation with them
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and I want it to be good and meaningful
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I really do and I want to know what
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makes them tick the problem is I'm not
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an expert in fluvial geomorphology and
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the truth is in this life you get to be
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an expert in like one maybe two things
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max okay so how do you get through this
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what I want to talk to you today about
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is how to fake your way through an
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interview and hopefully have a great
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conversation on the other side of it
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okay
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now I do get some on-the-job training it
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was very sparse and the the woman who is
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training me she sort of walked me
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through the building I was going to be
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on the air in a week and she's like
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here's how you do this here's how you do
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this oh and you're going to be
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interviewing people and I'm like oh okay
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I got a pen out right she's like here's
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how you do that you just shut up
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I put the pen away she's like you shut
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up you've got that I got that and that
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was 15 years ago
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I still got that it's fantastic advice
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and there's a couple other tricks that I
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want to share with you there's there's
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about six little ones and then one
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massive one so let's do this here's how
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you interview almost anyone trick number
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one do some prep come on don't be that
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guy who is like I'm just going to wing
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it man and I'm looking at podcasters
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mostly for this there's this scourge of
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people who think that they can sit down
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and hold their own and they can't nobody
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is that good
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nobody is that good okay and secondly
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it's a little arrogant and vain to think
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that you are so show your guests it's
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true show your guests the basic dignity
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of a Google search it's not hard do it
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on your phone I don't care when you do
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it just do it okay so number two you are
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going to be doing some prep I suggest
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since that author is coming in and you
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may not have read the whole book or like
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maybe even half of it they're gonna need
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you to know about it so what you do is
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you find interviews they already did and
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somebody else can do the work for you
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now I'm not saying I'm not saying steal
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their questions because that's wrong but
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I am saying you can use the answers that
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they gave earlier as your jumping-off
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point
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okay we call this the Terry Gross move
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you guys know who Terry Gross is okay
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she's fantastic and she said this was a
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stealable move I was in the room she
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said you can have it okay so what that
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looks like when you take you're
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basically following up on somebody
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else's questions so if that person is on
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NPR and that person says well my
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workflow goes like this I wake up at
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7:05 then I do hot yoga then I'm in the
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office by 9:00 you can use that answer
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and you can pick it apart you can 7:05
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it's like a normal person sets an alarm
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for 7:05 it's seven o'clock 7:30 why
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that and then they will tell you well
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you know I did the math is how long it
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takes me to get to the the bathroom and
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then the shower takes this long and then
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you're off to the races
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okay so 7:05 that's the Terry Gross move
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follow up all right now if you're going
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to be finding interviews with people
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this is my personal favorite and I hope
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that you remember this and steal it you
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can have it it goes like this
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find verbal interviews when you read in
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Rolling Stone or some blog an interview
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the odds are very high that that
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interview was done over email so they're
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thinking their answers out it's all
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calculated its tactical you don't want
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that you want the verbal things where
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you get the social cues and the
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intangibles that they're going to bring
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to you like a normal human in a normal
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human conversation where you know if
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they're nervous and you can help them if
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you know that they're going to be
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nervous you can see it and you can
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predict it okay so another thing they'll
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Telegraph to you in these other
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interviews that you're listening to do
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they speak too fast are they walled off
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do they have a stutter Lisp like you
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want to know all this going in so find
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verbal interviews now the sidebar to
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that this is a great thing as an
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interviewer you really really want to
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hear these words how did you even know
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that that's what you want to hear and if
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you can find these sort of small-time
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interviews these verbal interviews that
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they've done right if you're going on
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NBC in the morning you were going to
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stay up all night practicing but if you
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were going on a high school radio
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station in Tuscaloosa Alabama you were
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going to phone it in from your car on
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your way to pick up your kids right
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you're going to forget everything you
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said on that interview so those are the
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ones you want to find the little tiny
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ones where the stakes are very low and
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they're very casual because all these
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tips that I'm trying to give you set a
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stage for a person to be casual
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comfortable and human so find the little
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ones because when you bring up the thing
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that they forgot they told the high
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school DJ in Tuscaloosa Alabama they
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will tell you how did you even know that
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and then they loosen up even more
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because things are going good first
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three tips that's all beforehand second
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three tips are going to be during the
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interview number one I hate to even say
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it but icebreakers they totally work
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your summer camp counselor was right
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okay and the trick that you want to do
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is when you are breaking the ice with
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somebody you don't know especially when
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they're way out of your league is make
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it relevant camouflage it so if you're
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talking to a flu
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geomorphologist and i have she was
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awesome straight you can ask things like
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what was your major in college it's
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relevant but not really it's an
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icebreaker and I go oh yeah you know I
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will I went into college as a poetry
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major but then I switched to geology
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what a cat how do you connect that and
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you ask her that and she will connect
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poetry to geology and it's beautiful
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okay so don't fear the Icebreaker it'll
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work for you last two little things
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before we get to the big one number one
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is a listen which is harder and harder
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and harder everything in this world is
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trying to shorten your attention span
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and everything is winning at that
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everything is winning and if you're not
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listening to me right now I feel you but
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try to focus in and don't do these corny
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things of like trying to think of your
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next question while they're still
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talking listen completely and be there
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be present don't try to get a joke in
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and certainly do not step on their
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answer give them the time okay
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so so you want to listen and you can
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only listen if you last one shut up
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she was right it comes back to shutting
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up and giving them some breathing room
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so that they can say their piece at a
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tempo they're cool with and there's a
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fun sidebar to the shut up thing which
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is this dead air chicken does that make
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sense just right off the bat No okay so
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dead air chicken works like this
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it can go on and I will win because when
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you create an awkward pause that is
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awkward enough the thing that they will
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desperately fill it with burbles up from
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a wild part of their psychology that
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they cannot control it all and this is
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where you get your unpredictable stuff
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so dead air chicken do proceed with
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caution though all right so now these
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things will get you through an interview
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they will get you through to the other
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side and you will kind of appear
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confident cuz you kind of are at this
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point but it won't give you the
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conversation that you want to have the
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one that people will email you later
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about and say man I didn't think floovio
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what is it I didn't know that was my
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thing so they'll email you this if you
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can set the table for your guests to be
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comfortable you know when you're at a
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party and you are explaining your job to
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somebody else or your passion to
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somebody else and they're just leaning
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in and they're like bring it bring it I
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want to know everything you can tell me
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that is the real trick board people are
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boring interested people are interesting
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so what I'm trying to tell you is be
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interested in everything possible right
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everything at all curiosity is a muscle
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and I'm not the most curious person by
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any stretch but I have found that the
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ROI on curiosity man that pays for
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itself because you if you can put
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yourself in uncomfortable positions if
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you can like for me it looks like you
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know sort of cultivating curiosity I try
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to diversify my media I try to listen to
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John Rizzo music I don't like free jazz
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what the hell free jazz I want to know
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what people see in free jazz I don't get
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it but I listen to it sometimes and it's
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sort of for rewarding but it gives me
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practice at being uncomfortable with
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things I don't know about so I guess
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what I'm trying to say here is that if
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you can be interested in everything as
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much as possible it makes your life
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better not just when you're at work
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having an interview fluvial
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geomorphologist right because you will
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find that you can hang with most
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conversations
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as you are bought in you're genuinely
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interested in what you are being told
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you are learning and there's an emerson
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quote he says every man I meet is my
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superior in some way and in that I
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learned from him and that is in my
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experience completely true I think about
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it a lot and I have talked to Oscar
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winners I have talked to hobos who live
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in a bush and like they're equally
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interesting to me their narrative
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matters and if I can sort of set the
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table for them to to tell me how they
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are the good guy in their own movie
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that's all I want and that's all they
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want and time after time if you can get
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to that point in your your discussions
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and your interviews you will find that
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you walk away a better person so to
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conclude do the tips you know do some to
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some prep seriously do that use the
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icebreaker find the verbal interviews do
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all that stuff but if you can make
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curiosity your hobby if you can become
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an expert in curiosity if that's your
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one area of expertise you will find that
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every single person is worth listening
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to and you're going to walk away better
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and don't forget to shut up
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